The Mastery of Life Part 10

The Power of the Tongue

Self-control over the tongue is important because our words can be a blessing or a curse. We are often more conscious of restraining physical violence since we can see the visible wounds and reactions it causes. However, verbal abuse is just as damaging—it can break hearts and leave wounds that are not visible but deeply felt.

The Bible warns us about the destructive power of our words. James 3:6 (ESV) says, “And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell.” Our words carry weight not only in the natural world but also in the spiritual realm. They have the power to bless or curse, to build up or destroy. Careless words reveal the state of our hearts, and if our hearts are not pure, our speech will reflect that.

No one is perfect, which is why we need the Holy Spirit to take control of our tongues. Proverbs 21:23 reminds us, “Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.” We must resist the temptation to gossip and criticize. The golden rule is silence—if our words do not edify and are not spoken out of love, it is better not to speak. Before speaking, let us pray, seek God's wisdom, and be slow to speak (James 1:19). In many cases, silence is golden. May our words always reflect God's love and truth.

Tips: Pause and pray before speaking. Before responding, practice the habit of pausing, praying, and speaking with love.

Prayer: Abba Father, I acknowledge that my words have the power to bless or harm, to build up or tear down. Please help me to guard my tongue and practice self-control in my speech. In Jesus’ name, Amen.